i broke up with my bf because he is not sincere..i can feel it..i got over him but my problem is ive fallen inlove with his friend..his name is jhayr..were not that cLose but i think he just found out that i liked him..it changed our friendship..he talks to me but i know he already know that i liked him..T-T my problem is he has a gf i feel sad everytime he tells me that he misses her..i just cant take it.. i only cry everynight so that i can get over him but nothings happening..i knwo he doesnt like me and i dont want to lose him...pls heLp me
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--- Tuesday, August 2, 2005 - Just be friends????
Answer by: The Reality Factor
Hi heart01,
Nickpalazini, you want them to just be friends???!! Look, give this guys a couple of weeks to decide what he wants. You said he knows that you like him so it's all up to him now. Don't hang around too much longer [as a friend] while he hold discussions with you (someone he know likes him alot) about another girl. I hope that I'm making some kinda sense here. Within a few weeks, if he don't decide to date you, in particular, step a "couple" of feet back!!! You don't want to be close friends with someone you really like, but can't have... it only makes matters worse for you: sitting on the steps while he talks about how he misses another girl for the next couple of years. Dealing with this would only be hurting you... spending your life wishing he will one day go out with you. If nothing happens soon, step waaaaay back and only hold mild conversations with him every-now-and-then....
The best thing you can do is remain friends with Jhayr, and hope for the best. He has a girlfriend, and even though he knows you like him, it doesn't appear that he will break up with her anytime soon. Give it time, and you may be surprised with the the results. There's always hope, even if it's just a little bit. Best of luck.
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