I'm 19, my guy friend is 28. He knows I'm a virgin and that I like him(more then friends), but he only wants to be friends with benefits. What should I do?
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--- Thursday, August 25, 2005 - I agree
Answer by: love pro adviser
A guy like this is a disgrace to all the people who write to people just like you who take love relationships seriously, like me. DON'T get involved with him. Be just friends with him and thats all. If he asks why, Tell him, you don't like friends with benefits. See what his reaction is on that. Good luck and take all our advises SERIOUSLY!
Adrian Barcomb/Love pro Adviser
--- Friday, August 19, 2005 -
Answer by: Red_Roses
Forget him. Any guy that tells you he wants you as a "friend with benefits" should be smacked. He is basically telling you he doesn't care about you as a person, but doesn't mind using you.
You can do much better than this. This kid sounds like big trouble, and you don't want to get involved with such a person with little character.
--- Friday, August 12, 2005 - Don't fall for it
Answer by: HumboltPenguin
Friends with benefits is basicly saying "I don't mind DOING things with you but I don't want to be tied down to only you." Being friends with the guy is okay if you can handle it, but don't let him suck you into doing things of a sexual nature
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