This is what happened me and my exboyfriend was together for a year and a half then we broke up because i thought he was cheating on me. We didn't talk to each other for about two months then he was talkin to my best friend so he could try and talk to me again. so i gave him a chance and talked to him but at the same time during our brake up i met a guy friend that is tryin to get with me. But during our brake up all i did was think about him and cried a couple of times. Then when i talked to my ex on the phone he told me the truth that he never cheated and i started gettin my same feelings for him all over again.I told my ex i had a guy friend and he still didn't care he wanted to be wit me.Then i was thinkin ok he wants me back but i have a little feelings for this guy friend. Then when me and my ex was on the phone we was talkin like we was getting back wit each other. After that i haven't heard from my ex for almost a week. So durin that time me and my ex didn't talk my guy friend wanted to spend some time wit me, i didn't want to but my mom made me get out and have some fun so i went and it was nice bein out wit him but i was wishin it was my ex.All i want back from my ex is to be the guy he used to be because i believe that's what made me fall in love wit him.When my ex finally called me he told me that he didn't call because he been workin but he took a guess and said that i probably was out wit some guy friend, then i told him i was and all i know he wanted to call me back i tried callin him back but got no reply. All i know is that i want my relationship back with my ex but don't know how to tell him all my feelings for him.Am i really in love and should i try to get my ex back?
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--- Sunday, August 28, 2005 - ...
Answer by: liltxangel_bm
all i can say is go for love not lust. love will get u farther. and make u happier. most of the time. good luck. lynn p.s. my best friend was just going through the exact same thing. she got back with her ex and she hasnt regreted it. if u do get with him. be careful for that other guy. u might end up doing something u wish u hadnt. learn from other ppls mistakes girl. ive seen it ruin ppls lives. good luck
--- Thursday, August 25, 2005 - I would agree
Answer by: love pro adviser
Listen here. I really think that you should try to get back with your ex and that things will work out if only that you tell him how you feel about him. Get in touch with him and then see how that works out for the both of you. But about the guy that your seeing, well see how he feels if you tell him about your ex and try to expalin to him the situation with him.So listen to that and good luck.
Adrian barcomb/Love pro Adviser
--- Thursday, August 18, 2005 - You're in love
Answer by: nickpalazini
From what you've written, i truely believe that you are still in love with your ex. The description of your feelings proves it. I know everything you wrote came from your heart.
Although you may have some feelings for your other guy friends, I think you should get back with your ex. That is where your heart is leading you. He told you he wants to be back with you. Simply tell him that your feelings are still strong for him, and that you want to give a relationship another try.
The best thing you can do is listen to your heart, don't let your mind get in the way. I'm sure that things will work out.
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