Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 5 1/2 months and I definitly know that this is the girl that I want to spend the rest of my life with, everything she does makes me feel so alive and special, but we tend to be arguing a lot lately, it is mainly because of me and I don't know why, so we decided to take a break to gather our feelings and realize whats going on. I just don't know what to do, she knows that I love her and miss her a lot and that this break is tearing us apart inside. I just need some advice or help on maybe why I may be arguing this much and what to do to let her know that I do still care and love her like I did in the begining.
It's great that you care about this girl so much to take responsibility for what's been going on, but realize that it is not all your fault that there are arguements. In a relationship, remember that there are two people involved, and both people have equal responsibility as to what happens.
What you need to do is sit her down, and just tell her your feelings. Tell her how much you love her, and that you want to be together with her, and that you BOTH have to work harder to make things work.
Realize though that arguements are gonna happen. It's normal and healthy for a relationship.
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