Have you ever been in a situation, where you like someone, and your really close to them, and they kinda like you back, but they someone else more? Its been like this all year. Because im so close to them, i help them through their probelms, and guy problems too, if they like someone, i tell them to go for it, but its been kinda hard because i like them too, and they just, dont like me back as much... Well, yeah, we've kissed before, but i never asked her out because we both didnt want to go out with anyone yet. And now thats over, but we still like each other.
Its over because she loves another guy. She has from around sept. to now, but she is too scared to do anything about it. She is confused. So am I. Im trying to help her with this guy so much, but sometimes, my feeling for her interfere. I know she likes me, by the way she talks to me, and the way she wants me to call her, or calls me. But she'll rarely call this guy, and wont really tlak to him one-on-one in person. I'm trying so hard not to let my feelings interfere, but i really really like her. And she wont do anything about this guy. Wat do i do? Im so lost and confused.
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--- Sunday, August 28, 2005 - ...
Answer by: liltxangel_bm
yea i agree with nick on this one, just be carful because she might just see u as a good friend. but if u know she kinda likes u then tell her how u feel. alot of girls...if u think they kinda like u then its usualy more than u know. girls like to hide there feelings alot. so if u tell her that u feel for her then she will open her feeling too. good luck. love lynn
--- Saturday, August 27, 2005 - Dont Worry
Answer by: coolguy65
It's allright dude i know how u feel. You have to tell her how you feel. Thats the only way she will ever like you. Good Luck with her man.
I can relate to the situation that you're in...I know you're in a tought spot, but I think I can help you.
Believe it or not, you're actually ahead of the game, just by being a close friend to this girl. She feels comfortable with you...she's able to tell you about her guy problems and stuff like that because she trusts you. You and her already have established a strong bond. Tell her your feelings for her, and let her know how much you like her. If it turns out that she's not ready to give up her felings or this other guy, accept her decision...but atleast you have given her a clear position on your felings, and left the decision up to her. Friendship is the foundation for a lasting relationship if it is meant to happen.
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