I've been dating this guy for a year, and he's great. I feel like I found him too fast though. He's the kind of guy I'd want to be serious with. But I want to date a few more people before I settle down, so I can really know what I want. Theres this guy in one of my classes that I talk to a lot. He's a few years older than me though, and I think he likes me. I don't know what to do, because I have a crush on him, but I'm in love with my boyfriend.
You seem really smart to want to date other people before you decide to settle down and be serious. Maybe you did find this guy to fast, but atleast you know what are looking for in the long term. The best thing to do is to talk to him. Tell him what you just wrote. Let things play out. If this relationship is meant to happen when it really matters, it will. But for now, focus on what makes you happy at the present time, not the future. If that's seeing other people, then do that. You have your whole future to decide what you really want.
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