I've Liked My Best Friend Friend Since I Met Him And When We Became Really Close And I Started Liking Him More Then Just A Friend But I Don't Want To Wreak Our Friendship Hes Always Playing On My Feelings Because He Knows How I Feel About Him...And I Think He Might Feel That Same Way But I Don't Know...When He Stays At My House We Seem Really Close Then After He Leaves He Won't Talk To Me For A Few Days...Hes Always There For Me To Comfort Me And He Really Cares About What Happens To Me...When I Was With My Ex-Boyfriends He Always Wanted To Beat Them Up And Stuff A Couple Of Them Broke Up With Me Because Of It...When I Asked Him If He Was Jelous He Just Said I Was Like A Little Sister To Him And That Was It But Even My Older Brother Doesn't Freak Out Like That...What Do You People Think Does Is He Jealous Of Me Going Out With Other Guys And If He Is What Should I Do About It I Don't Want TO Ruin Our Friendship But I Kind Of Bugs Me That He Freaks When I Have A Boyfriend. If He Wanted To Go Out With Me Then I Wouldn't Mind As Much But I'm Not Sure How He Feels...Whats Your Opinnion
I have a friendship with a girl that is very similar. I care for her like she is a sister to me. I've known her for 11 years, and I'm only 16.
I think that you and your guy friend have a serious chance to be together in a relationship. If it doesn't work out, your friendship will survive. Please trust me on that. The reason this guy may *appear* jealous is because of how much he cares for you. He doesn't want your boyfriends to hurt you emotionally because there are a lot of guys out there wanting a relationship for the wrong reasons. He may be a bit jealous, but it is not what is motivating him wanting to protect you.
I see so many similarities with you and this guys, as I do in my own situation. You a have a great friend in this guy, and he will always be there. Consider the two of you very lucky. Not many people have the joy to experience such a great relalationship throughout there life.
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