i met this girl last year when i was in middle school at the begging of the year, she was kind to me like to other her friends... but at the end of the year, i said something bad that made her get mad i tried like hundreds of times to say just one word that i am sorry. but she never gave me the chance or whatever. i think one of my friend told the counsler about this so my coucler called us and i finally said that word. so she didn't accept it she just said she will think about it, then everything got worse because now she thinks i'm wierdo. but i thought i should take this even though half of the 8th graders go agaist me because i thought i deserve that, anyways the things get worse than it was because like a week later, some bitch said i was going to stab her and kill her!!! whenevr i think about this i get mad and i go crazy, because i didn't say that damn words!!! but somehow her and her frieds stoped what they were doing to me. because they were scared or something. i tried to explain to her but i don't think she will talk to me at all... no chance not even 0.00000000000000000000000000000000000001 percent i think, anyways i don't why since then i liked her or i can't stop think about her, if i go with my friends then she will get scared because of that damn thing, but i can't go by myself because i do not have any guts to do that, can anybody help on this is there any good way to be with her or be her friend again??? i don't think she forgot it already because we're in highschool now and whenever i see her she or she sees me she look at the other side, i want to find the person who started that bullshit so i can do something about it but i don't think i should get into any troubles because she thinks it is true that i said that. i really cant help myself,i don't get this situation and i don't like it because she i think hates me like more than i deserve. can you guys help me? i'm so caught up by her and i can't let her go from my mind... i know you think i'm such a jerk or stupid i don't think my life should go like this. thank you...
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--- Friday, September 9, 2005 - Nick
Answer by: nickpalazini
Hey Greg,
I know it's tough...but "Itsmash" gave the right advice. Space and time are what is needed. Eventually, she will not hold it against you, but by that time you may have found someone else too. I know it seems like a mile away now, but just wait. "Time heals all wounds." You'll get through it.
Good luck, Nick
--- Friday, September 9, 2005 -
Answer by: Greg
thank you for reading but i wish i could wait but the truth is i can't. i saw her yesterday with one guy, i heard that they don't go out together but i still get jealous and i don't know why... or i thought that that place's belong to me or something i thought myself how stupid am i.. i will try my best and be calm... if i have to but is there any easier way??? or i will have to see her go out with somebody else and pretend i do not care...i hope this is just a nightmare so i can wake up and do the regular things like other people do... i don't want to tell this my own private thing to anybody, not even my friends or my family... it is that hard,,, what i should is wait then right? i think i can at least try but what if she never forgets it? i'm afraid if she doesn't want to forget what happened... man, this is like a hell in my life... sorry... thank you again,,
--- Friday, September 9, 2005 - time
Answer by: ltsmash
You will have to give this some time. What ever happened or what ever was said needs time to settle, you have said your piece, you will have to wait for her to make the next move. In the mean time I suggest to give her space and not hassle her or her friends and just do your own thing. Not everything in life will work out the way you want it to, so dont be so hard on yourself.
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