I'm 15 and i finally got my first girlfriend. she has had quite a few b/f's and has done everything but had sex. There has been a few times where she has wanted me to finger her but, i'm new to this, and i get scared or nervous. can anyone give me some advice?
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--- Monday, November 28, 2005 - Thanks
Answer by: spence
Thanks every one. I waited a lil' while and just put my fears aside. Turns out she liked it, and was very happy. Thank you for all of your advice, if you ever need any help from me email me...because i want to return the favor sumtime. spencer_fort@yahoo.com. thanks again.
hey don't feel pressured into doing something you don't want to do... and all you can really do if u do want to do it is ask her what she likes btw theres a lil pea sized bone thing on the out side of her vigina (above the hole) and that is v.senstive! so you could either move it gentley up n down or round in a circle.. gd luck!
--- Monday, November 21, 2005 - umm
Answer by: missknowitall
you honestly do whatever feels right, if you want to finger her, then tell her your new at it, and if she could tell you where its most pleasurable for her becuase when i asked my bf to finger me he didn't know what the hell he was doing. Just tell her to help you out, or get your friends to help you out.
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