| GOOD RELATIONSHIPS ARE GOOD FOR YOU
Hints
Laughter is the best medicine, so laugh together
Love your differences, they make you interesting
Pay attention to the small stuff, adapt or work out the little irritations before they become huge.
Solve things together
Be connected to each other and your family, friends, etc.
Make happy moments and remember them often
Arguing Advice
In almost all relationships there are arguments.
With relationship problems it is more likely for the female to bring up the problems, and for the male to become silent, and avoid confrontation.
The advice to the guy is not to sidestep the conflict. The female brings it up because she values the relationship. At least hear her out, acknowledge her thoughts and try to understand her feelings.
The advice to the female is DON'T attack the guy verbally. Complain about the problem, but do not attack his character.
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THE
CORNERSTONES
OF RELATIONSHIPS
CARING, RESPECT , COMMUNICATION, TRUTH , & COMMITMENT
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For a relationship to have a solid foundation to build on you need:
Caring about each other
Respect for each others needs
Communication between each other
Truth with each other on all things big and small
Commitment to each other and the relationship you have!
Simple, but truly needed in a sound relationship.
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Love Pointers
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When you say, "I love you," mean it!
Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.
Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; Responsibility for all your actions.
When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
Remember that the best relationship is one where your love for each other is greater than your need for each other.
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| GOOD RELATIONSHIPS ARE GOOD FOR YOU |
People in supportive, loving relationships:
Help each other practically as well as emotionally.
Are less likely to do things that are bad for their health.
Tend to be happier and healthier, satisfied with their lives.
Enjoy the good times and help each other through the tough ones.
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| BREAKING-UP CAN BE A HEALTH HAZARD |
| It usually takes two to three years for a couple whose relationship has broken up to begin to put their lives back together again. It sometimes takes five years for individuals and families to get over the emotional pain and trauma. Many people can have serious health and emotional problems during this time. |
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